Stuff that actually works
Short, practical advice we learned the hard way — so you don't have to.
Surrogacy & Adoption
Surrogacy 101: Getting Started Guide
Tackle surrogacy in phases: research first, create and freeze your embryos, then pause before choosing a vetted, gay-friendly agency and a surrogacy attorney.
Surrogacy for Gay Men: Grants and Overcoming Financial Obstacles
We split surrogacy into an embryo stage and a pregnancy stage, then apply for LGBT-friendly grants like Men Having Babies to ease the cost.
Interracial Gay Family Handbook
If you're building a transracial family, prepare for stares and questions, learn to care for your kids' hair, and choose truly diverse, inclusive schools.
Where to Start If You’re A Gay Couple Wanting to Have Kids
Know what you want, ask your fertility doctor about frozen embryo cycles, and explore all your options before committing to the costliest path to parenthood.
Health
Our Kid Just Had His Tonsils and Adenoids out at Two and a Half. Here’s What I Learned
Before your toddler's tonsillectomy, prep them with a doll story, keep pain meds on schedule, track fluids, and call in family help for that tough first week.
It’s the cold season: Don’t Toss out the Old Wives’ Tales!
When colds hit, we lean on grandma's remedies alongside regular medicine, like onion-infused honey for kids over one and plenty of turmeric in meals.
